So you have found the love of your life ? your soul mate ? CONGRATULATIONS!!

And now the two of you have decided to get married, to spend the rest of your lives together?presumably in love.

Being in love is such a wonderful feeling ? I love being in love.

Every moment that you spend or rather invest with your beloved gives you such a wonderful feeling or if I may put it in another way, it gives us such a peak that we forget everything else?we just crave for more.

That is the beauty of love ? but is it always at its high?

Does the peak give way to a valley ? a high followed by a low ? that is the law of nature ? whatever goes up must go down.

So two people who are in love decide to get married and when their love peak starts to plateau, the problem starts ? the former lovelorn couple starts bickering, complaining about each other and if corrective measure are not taken in time, they may even part ways after a breakup.

The key lies in for both the individuals to realize the ground realities of love ? life is never always a bed of roses ? this may sound clich?, but is a fact.

In fact two people can stay in love if they love not just each other but lot many things together.

With the passage of time, there is a need to identify and pursue areas of common interest, which I believe can help the flame of love be alive; nothing can undermine the importance of talking (a mutual dialogue) to keep a relationship alive.

It is noteworthy to understand the difference between communicating and talking in a relationship ? you are presumably in love with the person you are with today? then what?s holding you back to share your innermost thoughts with your soulmate ? seek and urge for every possible opportunity to talk ? spend quality time together but also respect each other?s personal space.

This may sound like a tight rope walk ? but those are able to maintain a balance, cross over successfully !!